What's yours? I'm gonna say insecurity. I prefer a headstrong woman who knows what she wants in life and isn't afraid to go after it. Not fond of whiny or over needy. Might be cause I'm gettin old too! LOL

rudeness. I met a girl here who was fairly local,she was pretty cute but when I got to speak to her on the phone and was trying to get to know her I told her about my job and other parts of my life all she could say was "boring!" in a rude and condecending tone.

@ynotudo69:same here

Oh wow! I would of had to of been rude rite back and hang up in that chic's face!! I would say whiny, i dont want to raise a man, he needs to b confident but not conceited. I also dnt tolerate lies or unfaithfulness

Its funny... but honestly a man who likes pop music... I think that the type of music you listen to says something about who you are.... ive found that men who listen to pop music are usually (beeing the key word) afraid to be themselves or havent ffound themselves

Hmm... well, there aren't usually things I fear to encounter going into a relationship, it's unfortunate realizations that I have along the way that can make or break a connection for me. If a guy is exceptionally crude, right off the bat I will be completely turned off.

Mine would be bigheaded and a liar. Who wants to be with someone that is too bigheaded to tell you that you are beautiful. Or someone that does nothing but lie.

@ynotudo69: yes insecurity is a dealbreaker as well because thats when jealously takes place.

My guy is jealous, clingy, whiney, and childish....and hes OLDER THAN ME!!!! Help!!!!!!!!!!!! Try living with that stupid ****.

@HardWorkingMom: damn the bad luck!