Do you think it would be possible for you to be friends with an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?

any inputs are welcome

Nope. I tried and it was very arkward.

Been in 3 long term relationships during my carefree life. EX-wife of 13 yrs and I are now like brother and sister. Having 2 great kids together kinda helped that. Other 2?I stay in touch with but mainly on Birthdays and holidays. MORAL OF STORY: Just cause it doesn't work out don't mean ya have to hate each other

I agree with ynotudo. It is possible to be friends after a while. Don't try it immediately though. If given enough time for both of you to heal, it can work. I am friends with all of my exes!

@lovablesweetyy: Hi lovablesweetyy, nice post. Ummm.... I think the most amicable way to end a relationship is with friendship. The problem comes in when there's no distance in between. If you're close enough to rekindle anything, then that's too close of a friendship. It could interfere with a new relationship and even destroy it. Personally, my philosophy is, whatever got us to the point of being an ex in the first place is not going to work a second, third, and fourth time.

umm its ok for me to be friends with my ex's. but they seemed so awkward! haha

my exand i live together. We have two kids together. But its kinda awkward when we bring our dates home. The two of us are best friends. We are better as friends then a couple. :-)

Ok, I do agree with what`s being said. However, i can`t do that. Sure i try to save face around her and my kids, but everytime i see her i get those bad feeling come up. And not to mention how wierd it is after all the years of being in love.

Me and my 1st husband FINALLY were able to be friends for our daughter's sake, but it took us BOTH moving on. It didnt happen over nite, but we were friends and were probably the closest divorced people u would ever meet. lol

wow... thanks all