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What to do? (by ynotudo69)

 ynotudo69 
27-Sep-12 8:45 pm
O.K. Say you've been chatting on a dating site for a while with someone but have yet to meet in person.Maybe it's in the works but hasn't taken place.You go out one night with friends and just so happens you meet someone who you'd like to know more about.Do you follow up on it and ask them out? Is that considered cheating?Do you tell them about your online romance?Do you tell the online person bout the date?Hmmm. LOL This should keep y'all busy for a bit.Does online time count as "dating" time?Damn I sure do ask a lot of questions! Life much easier for Tarzan in jungle.

 

 

 
 
 heikeva (69)   (60 / F-M / Bayern)
27-Sep-12 8:53 pm
You should be honest with the person you chatting with, on line or not makes no difference ! And you are already planning on meeting that person you met on here,than i think you took it already to the next level with her! You should tell her about the other woman! Just my opinion Tarzan! ;)

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (53 / F-M / California)
27-Sep-12 8:55 pm
Well for me everyone knows about Dating.mobi. And i would tell both the people about each other because i never left the friends first stage and till i decide to im open and single.

 

 

 
 
 ynotudo69 
27-Sep-12 9:33 pm
@heikeva: Not happening in my life-was just bored and thought I'd throw it out there.Hell Heik I have to bribe my Lab to go out with me! LMAO Old Tarzan thread got re-opened-check out my new response

 

 

 
 
 ynotudo69 
27-Sep-12 11:04 pm
Thought I'd bring this thread back up in prime time and see if response was better

 

 

 
 
 Rainbowbutterfly 
27-Sep-12 11:58 pm
What are the chances of meeting her ( online lady) personally ? Do you think you can handle LDR ?

I don't consider it cheating yet but if you continue dating/ meeting her while talking and building romantic relationship with the lady on here then it is cheating .


I don't see any big difference in physical dating & virtual dating .. Same real people with real emotions only in virtual , there are limitations of showing such emotions ( lack of seeing body language & tone ) .

Make up your mind while you are still in the " early stage " of dating ...

Good luck !

 

 

 
 
 uniquegem 
28-Sep-12 12:16 am
@ynotudo69: ooooh that's a good one.. First of all i believe honesty is best in every situation. If meeting the online girl is in the works, i believe you should stick to that. If you two have meeting plans.. Where is your heart? With the online girl? Or with the other? My opinion, just be honest with both parties upfront..... Good luck.. :-)

 

 

 
 
 ynotudo69 
28-Sep-12 1:47 am
Not actually happening to me- just a hypothetical question.

 

 

 
 
 ynotudo69 
28-Sep-12 1:51 am
@uniquegem: See above-LOL

 

 

 
 
 uniquegem 
28-Sep-12 3:35 am
@ynotudo69: oh i see now...

 

 

 
 
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