Please vote in the poll above.

I get sick of it both ways. Girl do this guys do that. Not everyone is like that. I took the last seven years to be single to figure out who i was again. I chose to be single to figure out what i wanted in a guy. I also didnt want to be negitive to a decent guy. Yeah the first few years my friends thought i was cold hearted the way i refused dates maybe i was. But now im good with life love it. Yeah girls and guys you will meet people that are jerks. But move on quickly dont let it eat at you be bigger than they are and push past it. You will find what your looking for. Maybe not right away like some of you want but you will find it. Find peace with yourselves first and be strong.

@brats52005: Yes im also sick of hearing it both ways i posted similar polls on the ask a guy section and general discussion if you are interested in either. Thank you for the great post.

@brats52005:ca cest bon. U hit da nail onda head wit dat 1. Ca cest bon means, dats good, in cajun french

Im a real man. I do this and that, all at once, dont believe me? ?????

why thank you dear sir.

U r welcome, mon amis.

Mon amis means my friend

Well thank you mon amis.

There's men & women then there's little boys & girls that need to go somewhere!