What are the common considerations ?

do they make you happy can you make them happy are you ready to make sacrifices. view on kids, number of kids, sex, religion (if thats important) other stuff

can you imagine growing old w/ them? If they became ill, would you feel the same? Do you find yourself trying to change who you or they are? There are to many to list...marriage is supposed to be a serious permanent contract between two people. Thats just what I think though :)

@Rainbowbutterfly: very good topic sweetie :)

Thanks clover ... I'm just wondering other mobians thoughts since this site is global :)

Marriage an life together is a 2 way street give an take! It doesnt go 1 way !!

when he or she is very ugly... when they are handsome and pretty.. they won't bother being a material... ask them they told you i want to enjpy life to the fullest... only 1% of them are considerate... wise men and women atimes go for the ugly knowing there character is beautiful and are a wife or husband material and they are sure of one thing... she or he belong to them not like ripe banana everybody wanna suck or lick no a fan that blows everyone... the question is who are the ugly ones =those that is pretty/handsome but don't always notice it.. they alwaya come to you ocassionaly and ask.. do you think i am beautiful? or am i hans? say yes and they will say u lied... they don't have pride atall... and can keep there a.s.s in house in family way...

I dont think this is something that you can foretell but some qualities of the individual could be taken into consideration as a potential husband/wife.When we look at How he/she carries themselfs in Working life,Social life,Family life,How they handle responsibilities, Practicallities,Face consequences of wrong actions the list goes on and on.

Great topic Rainbowbutterfly :) I think a guy is marriage material when he shows he's more receptive to the idea of getting married and being married...displays a more positive outlook. Daily, men just aren't jumping up and down in excitement about getting married lol Also, he is open to when and how marriage will happen and he no longer will hide behind multiple relationships. When a guy isn't marriage material he will act as if marriage is a death sentence and the woman who want it is the grim reaper lmao

well i would consider a guy 'husband material' only if i find him honest,practical in life, gud social connections, and oh yeah, he shouldnt cuss/be desperate.! Being desperate makes me freak out :3