How do you get over ?the girl that got away??

I met a woman back in early 2022 after a gig I was playing. She was and still is the most beautiful woman I?ve ever met personally. I couldn?t believe my luck that she wanted to strike up a conversation with me. We chatted for awhile and exchanged numbers. We ended up dating for almost two years until we had a fight due to a misunderstanding on New Year?s Eve 2023. It was no one?s fault, but things were said by both of us that can?t be taken back. Now, a year and half later, and I still haven?t gotten over her. I think about her every day and in spite of all of my friends advice and every bit of common sense I have, I just can?t move on with my life. I?ve tried dating, but I ultimately just end up comparing other women to her and hurting them. Here?s the catch: she recently hit me up out of the blue after 18 months of complete no contact. I feel like the tiny bit of progress I have made getting past our relationship would be ruined if I gave in and replied to her. I imagine a scenario where we get back together and things work out, but I know that in reality that it?s unlikely. I really need some advice.


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