Okay I am dating this guy and well he is supporting me and my two children cuz I can not find a job but I feel so guilty getting money from him cuz he ends up throwing it back in my face and now I feel like I owe him I am not happy and I just want to break down and cry I don't know what to think or do any advice

U know what,the guy is just trying to help

Well is there any assistant programs where you are that can help you out until you are able to find a job?

Along with esterlys advice you need to sit down and have a long talk. Talk about how its making you feel. And deffinately ask him what he is feeling. Because times are very hard and jobs are very short im having a very hard time finding one. I dont know if hes feeling stress or how he thinks. Because truthfully there is many answers to this question. But talking and finding out will help if you need more advice. Good luck.

There r but I was already on one and I understand that he is trying to help but he don't need to make me feel worthless it is hard being a single mother

I have tried to talk to him many times and that's when he makes me feel guilty

Wow dats nt healthy 4u an ur children, bt tell him hw u feel an make him understand, wea u r coming frm, bt if he makes u feel guilty, ur best bet is too get out of dat situation, dnt stay wea it makes u sad an upset, bcos ur chlldren ends up feeling that thea is sumthing wrong with thea mummy. Dnt think thea is no avenue cos thea is places u can contact.

I think hes not the one for you. I gonna this if you tried to talk to him then its time to move on. I have been where you are and your so young. First its confidence the self esteem and everyone guy or girl doesnt deserve that taken from them.

I don't have much self esteem right now and with all this it just hurts

Come on pick urself up, u can do it, have da courage an find dat inner voice inside u to take dat step 4ward. I believe in u, even thou u r hurting, dis relationship u r in nah its nt worth it, nt wen he nice 1 minute nxt s minute he opposite Dam sweetkisses u deserve more an better.