All Forums >> Love Corner >> Relationship Issues

GF(27) says she found another girls shirt at our apartment. Except I(M27) havent had any girls over. (by Sparky)

 Sparky (0)  (29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
9-Apr-24 6:30 am
GF(27) says she found another girls shirt at our apartment. Except I(M27) havent had any girls over. Ever.

So, I was at work and my GF texts me ?Have you had anyone over that I dont know about?? Me ?no of course not, what are you talking about??
And then the ****storm starts.. She says she found this shirt that isnt hers, and keeps saying I need to be honest with her. Except that I am, I have not had anyone over since we moved here six months ago, no friends, nothing. I said that she should show me the shirt, she wouldnt. I told her it might have been from when she took some laundry home from work, she said no.
Now shes saying she doesnt believe me, and I need to stay away from her. Now shes ghosted me. I came home and shes gone, I still dont know what shirt it is(and does it matter, really?), and my parents arrived tonight to stay with us as well and are obviously confused as why shes not here.
I dont really know what to do now.. I feel like she should listen to me. We have been together three years and she should know me better than this. Shes had some jealousy issues before and Im not sure if ive just had enough honestly. I would appreciate some advice here. How should I handle this situation?
TLDR: girlfriend says she found another girls shirt at our apartment. I have not had any girls over. She doesnt believe me, was not home when I came home from work and doesnt answer my texts or calls.


Source.

 

 

 
 
 DearJohn (6)       (64 / M-F / Arkansas)
9-Apr-24 10:10 am
If she wouldn't show me the shirt, then I would start thinking she's crazy or she's just looking for an excuse to break up

 

 

 
 
Quick reply:

[Smilies]

RULES:
  • Be respectful at all times.
  • Be mature and act like an adult.
  • Respect different points of view.
  • Discuss ideas, not specific users.
  • Don't get personal.
  • No profanity.
  • No drama.
  • No thread hijacking.
  • No trolling.
  • No spamming.
  • No soliciting.
  • No duplicate posting.
  • No posting in the wrong section.
  • No posting of contact information.
  • Be welcoming to new users.
Repeated violations of the above will result in increasing temporary bans from the forum and an eventual permanent ban from the site. Basically, just be friendly and neighborly and all will be well.
Similar threads:
Top
Home
Give us feedback!

Login:

* Username:

* Password:

 Remember me


Forgot?