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Been hurt (by Countryguy22)

 Countryguy22 
16-Sep-12 2:14 pm
Through face book someone close 2 me has posted something personal and not true. It has taken my boss 2 tell me and none of my friends told me they believe this girl. I am confused why someone would do something like this 2 someone who has done nothing 4 her 2 do this except show support, help and let her in my life. This is how she repays me by lying and making up stories which r not true about me. The sad thing is she put it all on face book 4 everyone 2 see. I dont have face book so I was told through my boss by people knowing him and telling him 2 tell me. Since this incident I have place charges against her 4 defamation and what ever else the police can get her with. Please tell me ur views of this and what would u do if this was u. Thank you 4 listening

 

 

 
 
 anncleofaye1 
16-Sep-12 2:21 pm
well let her do whatever she wants, atleast uve done to her ur part to love, care for her :) ignore her bro though it causes so much trouble. dont let those "lies" affect u, cuz in the end she'll realize it all. dont show her ure guilty or something like that, cuz if u do, she'll keep on doin that crap. dont worry bro everythings will be ok :)

 

 

 
 
 nicegal 
16-Sep-12 2:22 pm
@Countryguy22: Awwww mate :( sorry to hear that this has happend to you.. Facebook can lead up to all sorts of dramas .. I think you have done the right thing.. Just keep you’r head up and be strong within yourself and only surround yourself with people who will support you and be there for you..
Keep your head up buddy :)

 

 

 
 
 Rainbowbutterfly 
16-Sep-12 2:30 pm
Ahhhh FB .. It amazes me how people are able to put that in their statuses !!

Anyways.. Did you try to talk to her why she did it ? I dont know what " fabricated " story she had made & the damage done in you brought by her action .

If it happened to me and my work were affected and if the story is something that can ruin my dignity then I would take legal actions for that .. But .. If not then by talking to her heart to heart may resolve the issue ...

 

 

 
 
 Countryguy22 
16-Sep-12 2:33 pm
Thank you nicegal 4 ur message and support, it means alot. Also thank you anncleofaya1 so ladies r so kind 4 ur support and caring about me. I'm just glad I have good friends on here. This means so much 2 me at the moment. So thank you

 

 

 
 
 ThatNerdyChick (32)    (31 / F-MF / Virginia)
16-Sep-12 2:34 pm
There is a very slight possibility that there is some kind of truth to what she said but that's she's exaggerated it to the extreme. (Most women I know have the tendency to do that.) But if it's all complete untruth, it's hard to say why she did it. Maybe to be cruel, people are harsh and unforgiving.

 

 

 
 
 Countryguy22 
16-Sep-12 2:38 pm
Rainbowbutterfly it was the girl I was looking after. She is the 1 who did this 2 me. All I have ever done was shown support, cared and helped also loved is that so wrong 2 deserve something like that? The sad thing she wont admit it but she cant lie because its all on her page on face book. She is now in custody with the police

 

 

 
 
 uniquegem 
16-Sep-12 2:43 pm
@Countryguy22: sweetheart.. Stay away from people like that! PERIOD!! True honest friends don't hurt you. They love you.

 

 

 
 
 nicegal 
16-Sep-12 2:48 pm
@Countryguy22: No problem :) Don’t like people being sad even if i don’t know them .. Just offer my support and hope things work out.

 

 

 
 
 Countryguy22 
16-Sep-12 2:51 pm
Thatnerdychick there is no truth behind it. All lies she is 12 years old i'm 38 I know right from wrong. Plus I would never do anything like this 2 any girl. I'm a mature guy I love my women mature and about my age or older. All I did 4 this girl is gave her a place 2 live support help opened up my life 4 her and brought her in the country 2 give her a better chance in life and in return she has done this. She has no right 2 be so mean or lie about something what is not true. In a small town people gossip and things get taken out of text and before u know it everyone starts 2 doubt u hate u and make ur life hell because they will believe the child before they believe u. That's what country people do mainly adults with kids they will believe them first because they can sound so true even though they r lying just 4 symphony

 

 

 
 
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