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In need of advice....??? (by Daisy71)

 Daisy71 
13-Sep-12 10:17 pm
So i meet this really great guy online after 3 weeks of texting we meet. The 1st kiss was just as amazing as i thought it wld be. We spend the next cple of days 2gether and have a great time. Then he goes home and hardly txted then stopped txting. But 2day he has left me a message saying he thinks he loves me! Problem is now he wont talk again. Is he just playing with me or just scared?

 

 

 
 
 RomeoCby 
13-Sep-12 10:22 pm
Hes scared or busy may i ask were u intamete?

 

 

 
 
 JANUS8877 (0)   (47 / F-M / Georgia)
13-Sep-12 10:24 pm
Hate to say it but he might wanna have his cake and eat it to, just ask him straight up whats going on see what he says

 

 

 
 
 4everteh1 (8)    (36 / M-F / Pennsylvania)
13-Sep-12 10:36 pm
Ya...going with romeo here....if you slept with him. He might be barely texting so he can get some again if his other options run dry. (this is why i never fkk on a first date) if not then...no idea.

 

 

 
 
 Daisy71 
13-Sep-12 10:37 pm
I wish i cld ask him. He wont answer me. :-/ thought id actually found 1 of the good guys for a change!

 

 

 
 
 Daisy71 
13-Sep-12 10:43 pm
And no we werent intimate. He was a perfect gent.

 

 

 
 
 4everteh1 (8)    (36 / M-F / Pennsylvania)
13-Sep-12 10:49 pm
Hmm. Well try this. Dont text him or anything. See if he texts you in 3 days. If he dosent. (this s like the cardinal rule in the us) then he wasent really feeling ya. And i dont mean a good morning or a good night. Wait and see if he really wants to talk. It might be hard not to talk to him but give it a shot.

 

 

 
 
 Rainbowbutterfly 
13-Sep-12 10:51 pm
Sorry to hear OP :(, but the guys are perhaps right ..

After the date and he changed for no apparent reasons then probably he's not into serious relationship :( . His action is his indirect ways of telling you that..

I know it hurts but we can change it so best thing you do is to accept it , forget as possible and move on .

I wish you the best Daisy :)

 

 

 
 
 Lola381 
13-Sep-12 10:54 pm
Hmm. Well try this. Dont text him or anything. See if he texts you in 3 days. If he dosent. (this s like the cardinal rule in the us) then he wasent really feeling ya. And i dont mean a good morning or a good night. Wait and see if he really wants to talk. It might be hard not to talk to him but give it a shot.
Daisy i think try this some good advice from a mans perspective

 

 

 
 
 Daisy71 
13-Sep-12 11:05 pm
Thanx guys. :-)

 

 

 
 
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