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What should I do? (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
What should I do?
I'm (21F) and I'm in long distance relationship with my boyfriend (22 M) since 3 years. We met for few times and I truly cherish the times spent with him. We are at our hometowns and we are studying currently. I sometimes think about our future since we belong to different castes. His family seems to be rigid and he says that he'll try his best to convince his parents for me in future. My family is not too rigid or stubborn and I know they are not going to force me to marry someone else. I know both of us need to settle our own lives first and be independent. Still, I just feel that my boyfriend has not really got the guts to take stand for me.
We really love each other and I'm much more emotional than my boyfriend and therefore it gets very difficult for me to accept that maybe we won't end up together if things don't go well. I can do anything to fight for him and I've got the courage to do that because he's a really nice person but I'm just not sure if he thinks the same like me. He's very practical and realistic tbh.
TL; DR: What should I do? I want to become emotionally stable. I really fear about the future because I'll be the one who will have to deal with depression. I'm so weak emotionally. My boyfriend is strong enough to deal with all of this. Thinking about all of this just give me goosebumps...
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I'm (21F) and I'm in long distance relationship with my boyfriend (22 M) since 3 years. We met for few times and I truly cherish the times spent with him. We are at our hometowns and we are studying currently. I sometimes think about our future since we belong to different castes. His family seems to be rigid and he says that he'll try his best to convince his parents for me in future. My family is not too rigid or stubborn and I know they are not going to force me to marry someone else. I know both of us need to settle our own lives first and be independent. Still, I just feel that my boyfriend has not really got the guts to take stand for me.
We really love each other and I'm much more emotional than my boyfriend and therefore it gets very difficult for me to accept that maybe we won't end up together if things don't go well. I can do anything to fight for him and I've got the courage to do that because he's a really nice person but I'm just not sure if he thinks the same like me. He's very practical and realistic tbh.
TL; DR: What should I do? I want to become emotionally stable. I really fear about the future because I'll be the one who will have to deal with depression. I'm so weak emotionally. My boyfriend is strong enough to deal with all of this. Thinking about all of this just give me goosebumps...
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