I (24F) Want to move in with my GF (23F) but my mom is homophobic and controlling.

I have been dating my GF since May 2021. I'm moving out since my parents are moving across the country. Recently my GF asked me if I want to move in with her this August.
I'm currently living at home. My traditional immigrant mom is extremely homophobic and controlling and I don't know how I would be able to move out with my GF. My mom would want to see where I'm living and she definitely won't let me move my things to the apt on my own. I feel like I don't have a say. My dad thinks I should live on my own for a year before I move in with my GF. My dad tells me that even if I want to move in with my GF that it would be impossible because of my mom. My dad is also immensely scared of her and pretends to be homophobic to me so my mom doesn't divorce him.
She only lets me go out on Saturdays by myself so it's hard to even find rent because things disappear a day after it hits the market. Whenever I tell her I'm not moving with her she tells me I'm leaving her when she's the one moving across the country. When I speak up for myself and defend myself she tells me I'm disrespectful, ungrateful and that I'm destroying the family. She tells me I shouldn't be gay because she doesn't like it and that I should respect her decision for me and that I'm selfish.
I think the only way I could move out is if I get my own place for a year because then I won't be forced to have her help me moving out and I can go wherever I want, like move in with my gf.
I just don't know what to do, I know I'm an adult but I feel like I have no choice in the matter... I also feel like if I don't move in with my GF she will be hurt like I'm choosing my mom over her. But I feel like I have no choice of the matter until I move out.
TLDR: I want to move out to live with my GF but my controlling homophobic mother definitely wont let me move out with her. I feel like I have no choice but to listen to her.


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