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Winking is cute lol

when a guy winks at me...i never message him..i always wait till he messages me first. I think its cute to talk first then wink;)

So far it looks like it would be best to send a wink and a message:)

I always wink first, only to catch there eye then i msg and introduce myself, most likely thay wont wink back but if u want results dnt jst sit there and wait for a wink, blah blah blah

Well i have found that a wink first is good if u wink back, then the message will follow up after a wink

This is really confusing, so you should wink first? o.o

If you wink and she dosent wink back,then shes not good enough for you. Same works for females if you wink and he dont wink back then move on.

Wink first then message them and tell them ur not a perv then maby thel talk...lol.:-)

Either way I think its rude for someone not to respond to a wink or message. What happen to just being nice to someone. If there not your type at least be polite and message them back just to say thank you.