Why is it that every guy I get with always seems so sweet on the serface but the more I get to know them the more I hate whats on the inside ???

@Cazza: Maybe those guys aren't as mature as you are. It takes some guys longer to grow up than women & it depends on how they see other guys treat a lady. JMO

Most people arent who you think they are...its just how long till you find out who they really are. Especially on the net,the only place you can be anybody or anything you want and no one will ever know... Just so happens the ones u find happen turn out to be *****. We live in a fake world

When two people meet romantically they both put their best foot forward. As time goes on they get comfortable and let their true selves show.

@JCSMTG: thats def a better way to put it...even if its there best foot its still fake,were all guilty

Not all of us are guilty. I dont need to be fake. I was raised to be honest and be myself. If people dont like it to bad for them.

@brats52005: i agree!! But if you cant be yourself then there is no reason to try and be something your not bc its going to make you look like a total ass! Which i have no problem being myself or saying how i feel or what i think! If you dont like me then bite me!

Sometimes the person you r isnt the best you can be i think everyone should be open to change from time to time theres always room for improvement just dont be fake ... Its not we are who we are... We are what we make of it!! dont be affraid to try somethin dif

Here again what is you expactations of others. When you have an expactation that you your self cant meet conaquence is what youll find. I can olny expact of others what i myself can do.

@kaotikdad change is good if your not being changed to something your not happy with. And the person willing changes for the good. @expactation you are also right . Dont expect something from someone you yourself would not do.