Im not small enough to be a twink. And im not big enough to be a bear lol Like some people like taller bigger guys to protect them and keep them warm when they cuddle but im not like that. And sum people like muscles or skinny people. I just wish someone could like me for who i am. And that may not happen for many reasons. But a las the world is big. Im on the lookout for true love. If that exists

aww don't worry u'l get one*o*

Hmm.. ya know I think the majority of people probably fall into your category. lol After all, that's the definition of being average.

@ThatNerdyChick: Very true But i havent met anyone that is similar to me. All the short or average height guys are skinny or in shape. In a shallow society i dont do well. Whatever happened to personality. And theres guys a lot bigger than me that have someone. So i just feel like its just me. Like im extra hideous or something lol

@Seeuinthefuture: dont worry you'll meet your match maker soon enough bro just gotta keep at it

@Seeuinthefuture: First off, comparing yourself to other people won't do you any good at all. (It's really hard *not* to but comparisons tend to eat away at one's self-esteem and that's not healthy) Also, just cuz you haven't seen them doesn't mean they don't exist, and I personally very much disagree with the word average to begin with. Everyone is attractive and special in their own ways, it just takes the right person to recognize those qualities. Just because you haven't found her yet doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you! How many people are on this site looking for love? You aren't alone! lol

@hunter13: Thanx man! I respond better to positive reinforcement. Im not giving up

I see it this way people who have straight hair want curly hair ,if u have a big butt u want a small one u have big boobies u rather have small once and so on...... i have never met anybody ever completly happy with themselfs! ;)

@ThatNerdyChick: True But im talking about in real life. I know ppl can find true love on a website but thatll just make my self esteem even worse. That i couldnt meet anyone on my own. Cuz i just met up with a cute guy my friend is trying to set me up with. And i cant help to feel inadequate. Im just a big critic on myself. Until i find someone who truly thinks im really attractive. I guess ill never be, in the words of seinfeld, breathtaking lol Which apparently is a compisating compliment