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My (23F) boyfriend (24M) hooked up with my brother (19M) (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
My (23F) boyfriend (24M) hooked up with my brother (19M)
My (23f) brother (19m) started hanging out with this guy (24m) over a year ago and after I kept seeing him, I decided to get to know him, we hit it off and we've been dating a month.
When I first told my brother he got really upset, which was weird because I didn't understand what the big problem was, the next day he was emotional and asking me not to date him. I thought my brother was just was overreacting or just being petty so I proceeded to date my boyfriend. My brother got really distant over it.
Now my boyfriend finally told me he hooked up with my brother a dozen times (before dating me), and I guess he led my brother on. I knew my BF was bi but I didn't know my brother was gay/bi and he still hasn't come out.
What should I do or how should I go about everything now?
TLDR; my brother got really upset, the emotional when I told him I was dating my boyfriend and my BF is just now telling me he hooked up with my boyfriend prior to dating me and I guess led my brother on as well. My brother is not out
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My (23f) brother (19m) started hanging out with this guy (24m) over a year ago and after I kept seeing him, I decided to get to know him, we hit it off and we've been dating a month.
When I first told my brother he got really upset, which was weird because I didn't understand what the big problem was, the next day he was emotional and asking me not to date him. I thought my brother was just was overreacting or just being petty so I proceeded to date my boyfriend. My brother got really distant over it.
Now my boyfriend finally told me he hooked up with my brother a dozen times (before dating me), and I guess he led my brother on. I knew my BF was bi but I didn't know my brother was gay/bi and he still hasn't come out.
What should I do or how should I go about everything now?
TLDR; my brother got really upset, the emotional when I told him I was dating my boyfriend and my BF is just now telling me he hooked up with my boyfriend prior to dating me and I guess led my brother on as well. My brother is not out
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