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When is it too soon to hear ?i love you?? (by Sparky)
When is it too soon to hear ?i love you??
F(23) here.
I want to tell my boyfriend I love him when I see him next. We quarantined together for around two months before we both moved back to our respective homes (around 10 hours away from each other). We?ll have been together for four months when we see each again (July), and I want to tell him that I love him. Out of the four months we?ll have been together, we were only together as in, in person with each other, for about 2 and a half of those months (we basically lived together: ate meals together, slept in the same bed every night, we did homework in the same room. We never were apart for more than maybe enough time to shower or use the bathroom). We text every day, we play games together online, we snap and whatnot. Make plans for the future, after he graduates college (I already did, I?m older).
He?s a really... kind of an emotionally cut off guy. He didn?t grow up with a lot of love. I don?t want to scare him, but I want him to know that I haven?t felt this way about someone in a long, long time. Would anyone else be freaked out to hear that? Or is four months too early when we?ve only been in person-together for such a short time? I?m the type to not hide how I feel, and he knows that. And I?m sure he knows that I think he hung the stars. But is that scary? Should I hold off?
Any advice at all would great, or personal feelings or stories. Thank you all so much
Edit: woah, this totally blew up overnight! Thank you everyone for your comments and help. I super appreciate it, thank you!
Edit 2: I would like to say that I would never be disappointed if he didn?t say it back. I think that I tend to feel very strongly and he knows that, and he has never made me feel bad for feeling everything x2. He?s the sweetest, most supportive guy, and we really balance each other out very well. With that said, if he wasn?t ready to hear it, or wasn?t ready to say it back, I would never, ever make him feel pressured or bad for that. You can?t help the way you feel, and he?s included in that. I?m happy waiting, even if it means not saying it, or waiting for a long time. I just want him to be happy :)
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F(23) here.
I want to tell my boyfriend I love him when I see him next. We quarantined together for around two months before we both moved back to our respective homes (around 10 hours away from each other). We?ll have been together for four months when we see each again (July), and I want to tell him that I love him. Out of the four months we?ll have been together, we were only together as in, in person with each other, for about 2 and a half of those months (we basically lived together: ate meals together, slept in the same bed every night, we did homework in the same room. We never were apart for more than maybe enough time to shower or use the bathroom). We text every day, we play games together online, we snap and whatnot. Make plans for the future, after he graduates college (I already did, I?m older).
He?s a really... kind of an emotionally cut off guy. He didn?t grow up with a lot of love. I don?t want to scare him, but I want him to know that I haven?t felt this way about someone in a long, long time. Would anyone else be freaked out to hear that? Or is four months too early when we?ve only been in person-together for such a short time? I?m the type to not hide how I feel, and he knows that. And I?m sure he knows that I think he hung the stars. But is that scary? Should I hold off?
Any advice at all would great, or personal feelings or stories. Thank you all so much
Edit: woah, this totally blew up overnight! Thank you everyone for your comments and help. I super appreciate it, thank you!
Edit 2: I would like to say that I would never be disappointed if he didn?t say it back. I think that I tend to feel very strongly and he knows that, and he has never made me feel bad for feeling everything x2. He?s the sweetest, most supportive guy, and we really balance each other out very well. With that said, if he wasn?t ready to hear it, or wasn?t ready to say it back, I would never, ever make him feel pressured or bad for that. You can?t help the way you feel, and he?s included in that. I?m happy waiting, even if it means not saying it, or waiting for a long time. I just want him to be happy :)
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