Is my (f25) BF (m26) a bit of an ******* or is this just how relationships go?

We?ve been together 6 years, we live together and I?d say 70% of the time I?m happy.
My only major issue is how he speaks to me sometimes. For example: this morning before I went to work I tidied up the living room and kitchen (both our mess) then got home from work and made dinner for us, we sat and ate it and then he immediately got up without thanking me (he never thanks me for dinner), walked into the living room and then came back in shouting and swearing at me for leaving my shoes lying in the living room.
Which annoyed me because 1. Why does he notice the tiny things I do wrong rather than all the things I am trying to do right? And 2. I just don?t feel there is a need for a reaction like that, I really don?t appreciate being sworn at for something so minor.
I?m also annoyed at myself because all I said was ?sorry? and then went and put away my shoes. I never argue back and stand up for myself.
This might seem like nothing but when it?s all the time it starts to wear you down. I?m constantly trying to please him and worrying about what might **** him off next. I feel as though I constantly put his needs before mine and never get the same in return.
Do I just need to take the bad with the good? Or is it worth trying to change him?
TL;DR: bf shouts and swears when I do the simplest of things wrong. Should I put up with it, fight back or leave him?


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