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Is honesty the best medicine? What would u do if someone lied to u? (by Seeuinthefuture)

 Seeuinthefuture 
10-Aug-12 4:02 am
So i did meet a girl on here last year. And we really clicked. And she said she was 19. We talked on the phone everynite. I really liked her and the feeling was mutual. But everything i thought i knew about her was a lie. She was 17 under age! I Now i feel like a statutory rapist after everything that was said and such. I trusted her. Now i feel like a fool. Even tho shes gunna be 18 soon. Should i have not have freaked not freaked out? Cuz idk if ill be able to find a girl thats gunna be that understanding of my sexuality. And she wasnt that experienced like myself. So i know i miss her. I deleted her number. Now shes moved on. Did i make the right decision? The worst part is she wont take me back cuz i actually met a girl in my town. And she was under the impression i moved on. But the girl i met in person turned out to break my heart. So im double screwed. Cuz i lost it all at once. Story of my life lol

 

 

 
 
 CALIFORNIADREAMIN ( / - / )
10-Aug-12 4:08 am
Best medicine is a new girl that doesnt lie,,forget the past,theres so much fun out there and a girl thats gonna like you for u,,and not play games,guys play games too,but go get faded and meet someon,get out more til u find the right one..u can do it homie

 

 

 
 
 Rainbowbutterfly 
10-Aug-12 4:08 am
Did you report it to admin that she is an underage? I hope you did !

& no , honesty is not the best medicine , I find aspirin and panadol are the best meds

 

 

 
 
 OFWGKTA (13)    (29 / F-M / Florida)
10-Aug-12 4:11 am
I believe u made the right decision. I was lied to before (countless times) and now I have trust issues. Yet I still moved on. Don't worry about it. Don't let those crazed females control your life. Be happy and move on too. It will feel much better once you do, and will be less stressful. Trust me, I know. I don't let anyone steal my joy or ruin my day with drama. I ignore it or try and get past it the best way I can because life is 2 short, plus I have hypertension so there's no way i'm letting the small things get to me. I cant risk that. Peace & good luck,
-ofwgkta

 

 



Last edited by OFWGKTA; 10-Aug-12 4:14 am.
 
 
 Nippy (Banned)
10-Aug-12 4:12 am
Your sin is you have fallen in l0ve. . .Thats all. If she lied to u,,its her fault. .

 

 

 
 
 Seeuinthefuture 
10-Aug-12 4:14 am
Thanx guys. And i didnt report it. It slipped my mind. And she has never came on here again. I prob need to get into a bigger town or city. Theres not too many people around here open minded. I just dont see meeting any other girls. Im not man enough for them lol

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (53 / F-M / California)
10-Aug-12 4:14 am
Well the way i look at it she could have told you strait up if she liked you. Once a lie told more than one has to be told to cover it up. Where do you draw the line? Why wonder if she is telling the truth or not? I think for this you should move on. I'm pretty sure you would have waited till she was 18 if she told the truth right. I hope i'm right. But you deserve to be respected like anyone else and not to be lied too. It makes relationships harder if you always wondering if they are lying or not.

 

 

 
 
 purecowboy1988 
10-Aug-12 4:16 am
@Seeuinthefuture: Yes she should have been honest with you cause if someone lied to me about that or lied to me in general i would stop talking to them cause now i couldnt believe a word they say, if she would have been honest from the start it would have been up to you weather to except it or not, and your sexuality has no bearing on anything its a reflection of self and what you do is up to you and if people judge you from it then to me they dont need to be in your life cause thats not really a bearing on you or who you are as a person its who you choose to tell to except it to not

 

 

 
 
 ZakkODea (2)    (31 / M-F / Colorado)
10-Aug-12 4:16 am
Laugh! Thats what you need to do! Laugh and move on its honestly the best and only thing to do trust me i know its hard sometimes but thats what i have learned from life

 

 

 
 
 Rainbowbutterfly 
10-Aug-12 4:17 am
Your sin is you have fallen in l0ve. . .Thats all. If she lied to u,,its her fault. .
It's not a sin to fall in love :) ...

 

 

 
 
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