A man i had a very long relationship with but i ended it because he cheated on me is now trying to come back into my life. He keeps saying all the things to me that made me fall in love with him in the first place. How do i keep from refeeling the way about him i did before

I may be wrong but remind yourself that he did you wrong & chances are he will do it again sooner or later.

@christine47: are ok that he cheated? If you took him back would it not come in to play every day, week, month year, would you be able to trust him when he's not home. What was once said is gone and violated least once that you know of. You need to make the choice.

Im trying not to buy into the words he says but when you loved someone that much its hard not to want to hear them words again.

Once a cheater always a cheater they dont change it doesnt get better and hell kno that no matter what he does if u go back to him now hell believe ull always come back its hard to love someone that does not love u and if they cheated its plain as day they dont even care about u cause if they did care they wouldnt dare cheat in the first place or leave u for any reason

@christine47: hun there are plenty of guys looking for a good girl and will treat her right let him go and look for that guy that make u feel the way u want to and will be there for yha :) good luck hope u find him :)