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My (30 M) GF (30 F) is unsure if we should continue our 10 year relationship. How can I be proactive (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
My (30 M) GF (30 F) is unsure if we should continue our 10 year relationship. How can I be proactive and save it without being pushy?
GF says she isn't happy and feels she needs to take responsibility for her own happiness.
I want to work with the good things we have and put in the work to erase the bad things, which are mainly boredom perhaps and just the threat of everything becoming too mundane. 10 years is a long time.
Never really fight but things may have gotten a bit stale.
How can I show her how serious I am about working on my issues and our issues and that we have a future? Don't want to force it and for her to feel like I'm pushy.
TLDR: Stale relationship of 10 years - want to be proactive and show how serious I am about it working.
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GF says she isn't happy and feels she needs to take responsibility for her own happiness.
I want to work with the good things we have and put in the work to erase the bad things, which are mainly boredom perhaps and just the threat of everything becoming too mundane. 10 years is a long time.
Never really fight but things may have gotten a bit stale.
How can I show her how serious I am about working on my issues and our issues and that we have a future? Don't want to force it and for her to feel like I'm pushy.
TLDR: Stale relationship of 10 years - want to be proactive and show how serious I am about it working.
Source.
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