My bofriend of two years recently cheated on me and i didn't find out until on our son's 2nd birthday. I have no hard feelings over it anymore but i want to know. What would be a good reason to cheat after you already had a family and anything you wanted? Please post your thoughts about this.

I've been cheated on numerous, countless times. I believe cheaters are self-centered, rude, and don't deserve someone who actually cares for them. You should be faithful to your partner and never betray them. That's what trust is all about. Since i've had it happen to me so many times, I know how to catch a cheater and a liar right off the back. Someone who does that doesn't deserve a shot at true love because their definition is completely false and only an imitation of what a real relationship should be like. It's like they just cant get enough. They like the rush, the sick feeling of having multiple partners without them knowing. All he's doing is messing with your mind & heart and playing with your emotions... Never fall for them, because they are liars, mischievious, treacherous, and devious in all ways. That's just how I feel about them.

There is no good reason to cheat simple as that

In my opinion if my girlfriend/spouse wanted to to do that i wouldnt mind as long as they tell me about it, thats how you build a key ingredient of any relationship and that's trust if you can trust you partner to tell you everything then they shouldnt worry if you know and your ok with it

Having had my wife of 13yrs cheat i cant tell you why they do it. or how they live with themselves. they are self centered and only care about themselves. a decent good hearted person would never betray someone they love that way. so in short cheaters are the scum of the earth. once a cheater always a cheater. it's tough but move on and find a man that will give you his everything. deserve nothing less than the best!

Yuhh mighta lost summ umpff that month xD

keep it fun, dont get dual in the bedroom, if yuhh did get dual that aint a good reazon for him to cheat... but it will make him want that umpff if yuhh know wht i mean....

yuhh know how wen yuhh kiss sum1 the feeling yuhh get, the tingle..... dont looze that....i think wen yuhh get old to sum1, yuhh looze the tingle, no tingle makez yuhh want the tingle, so yuhh go find it, with sum1 els or sum1 new..... ive noiced this sad sad thing..... =[

but jus do yuh'r best to keep the tingle xD
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@ brock very good points .......once a cheater always a cheater !!! I never have never will never would.....u can try 2 forgive but its hard 2 forget ! If they done it once why wouldnt they do it again??

My ex husband cheated in our third year and we worked it out and had 6 great years after. It was a lack of communication on both our parts. But a boyfriend would be history

Men cheat because most of us can't handle just one females. Some of us, like myself, did it either through temptation, being manipulated, or revenge. I was honest about it, and still regret it. All in all, everyone cheats. It's just a matter of trust and making mistakes.

@T3x4sb0y: Lol um what do you mean ''everyone cheats?'' Dude, that's like a slap in the face because i've never cheated in my life and never will....even if I have been cheated on in the past :/