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Would u have a baby? (by Briteeyes1211)

 Briteeyes1211 
7-Aug-12 2:51 pm
Ok ladies (and gents) lets say u have decided not to have any children or any more children. If u met someone that wanted children would u change ur mind? And to what measures would u go to? If u couldnt get pregnant for whatever reason how far would u go? Would u do what had to be done to satisfy ur partner? Whether u were 22 or 46 would u do it?

 

 



Last edited by Briteeyes1211; 7-Aug-12 3:03 pm.
 
 
 coryleegale 
7-Aug-12 3:10 pm
@Briteeyes1211: right now im not looking forward to any kids. maybe in 5 or 6 years

 

 

 
 
 Briteeyes1211 
7-Aug-12 3:13 pm
My sis n law is 38 yrs old and has no children. My brother (her husband) is the last male to carry on our name. She is not able to carry a child without surgery, i kinda want her to go thru with it so my brother can experience the blessings of raising a child and so i can be an aunt lol. But shes kinda against it due to her age, anyone have any advice on what i should say to her?

 

 

 
 
 VampDoll 
7-Aug-12 3:26 pm
My mum had 3 children including me and we are all grown up. She is in a relatively new marriage with one of the nicest men I've ever met. But he has no kids even though he would make a brilliant dad, he is great with my son. But my mum turned 50 this year and he is 51. Although my mum is a health freak, works out everyday, is a vegetarian, never smoked one cigarette in her life, she is in better shape than me. He is similar, doesn't smoke, rides his bicycle every day. They started trying for a baby nearly 4 years ago but nothing so they went and got checked and they are both physically well enough. Its just not happened for them. I know my mum has had her chance, but he hasn't. Its sad and my mum has got all these new things to keep her occupied like kayaking, cake decorating and owning loads of rabbits. Think she is filling up her spare time so not to think about it.
You should be grateful to be blessed with any children, and I so am but I myself want more one day.

 

 



Last edited by VampDoll; 7-Aug-12 3:28 pm.
 
 
 Cmack 
7-Aug-12 3:45 pm
Yeah i'd let her knock me up

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (53 / F-M / California)
7-Aug-12 4:30 pm
This would be a serious disscussion between me and my partner. And the pros and cons at my age would have to be disscussed.

 

 

 
 
 Chelly2012 (0)  (30 / F-MF / Pennsylvania)
7-Aug-12 5:32 pm
@Briteeyes1211: yes i would im looking to get wifeed up now and have kids

 

 

 
 
 Rainbowbutterfly 
8-Aug-12 6:45 am
Hmmm a very serious Q

If I decided not to have children anymore or doesn't want any child then it must be respected by my husband or partner and of course I'll informed my husband / partner about my decision prior the relationship gets serious .

Having a baby doesnt start from pregnancy and ends on giving birth , it's a lifetime responsibility , duty and a woman must embrace good motherhood which means in her heart & mind , she loves to be a mother , not being force ( somewhat / indirect ) nor for her partner's satisfaction .. Well ... IMHO


BUT:

I'd like to have a baby :) . I really dream of a big family of at least 4 children but I'm 35 with only 1 child .....

 

 

 
 
 RomeoCby 
16-Aug-12 7:59 am
Im 33 and ive never had kids nor married but i want both and people look at me funny when i tell em and i to run into women my age sayin they have all the kids they want and i wont beg 4 kids just always been my dream

 

 

 
 
 RomeoCby 
3-Sep-12 10:10 am
Id have twins if i could just get them to come out my peehole. Lol jk

 

 

 
 
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