What do i have to change to make myself more appealing to men

I use to ask the same question and have tried to change who i am and i come up with the same answer everytime why should i have to change who i am to please someone else if they dont like me for who i am then they def dont deserve to be with let alone around

@christine47: to your own self be true and do not try to mold yourself to conform to people/ men but what do people do to be presentable. They workout, they go to salons for hair nails and makeup. This is just normal life and many person do these not to other but himself as well. I don't know you are what do or do not do but I will say don't become a people pleaser.

Be true to yourself. If they want to change you then they arent for you. You wont be happy. If they love you they except you as you flaws and all. And if you love them same goes. Changes have to be willing. And if your happy with who you are then dont change. Find someone who excepts you for you.

I think a profile pic should reflect the fact that you care about your own appearance to others. Honestly a site such as this is a little like a job interview, first appearances ARE important. If you look like you just got out of bed your not trying to ''sell'' yourself very hard. Nice clothes, nice hair and makeup can go a long way!

Well if ya on a dating site just for a pretty face thats wrong,the personality and maturity go a long way, and ya just showed how mature you are. also if ya cat think a girls pretty when she first wakes up. then no need talk too her cause in a relationship wakeup beside each other every single day lol.

@nightwolf: and youre pocture is any better? Lonelyforher is right, if you cant handel someone at their worst, you dont deserve them at there best. @christine47: dont you change a thing, no one should have to change for anyone but themselves!

@sammay: lol go girl ^ high five ^

She asked for an opinion on how to make her self more appealing to men. I gave her mine. If she didnt want input, why post the question? @Sammay, Have you ever gone to a store and bought makeup or nice looking clothes? Why would you bother to do that? If your charming personallity is enough to attract men, then you would never have to worry about looking good for anyone, right?

@nightwolf: and you wonder why youre single. Why should women have to look good for men when most of them dont do **** for us? I bet you dont go out and get new clothes or anything for a girl so stfu.