My (28F) husband (31M) told me he wanted to see his friends/colleagues but when I offered to join them, he got furious and said he’d rather not go. I have a feeling he might be cheating on me again. Am i just being paranoid?

I’m writing this via mobile and just 30mins after our argument. So here’s how the it went.
He was my plus 1 at my company’s dinner and dance tonight. We both had fun but when it was time to go home, he told me that he needed to meet his friends/colleagues and that they were waiting for him at this place. He offered to call a cab for me to take me home. I got mad because I was expecting that we would come home together seeing as we both came from my company event. So I told him that I would go with him to meet his friends instead. He got annoyed at me and told me that I was being dramatic. That he was going to discuss work stuff that wont concern me at all. And I said fine then I’ll just drop you off. He got furious and said he won’t go at all. It sounded so fishy, like first of all, why doesn’t he like me to go with him or even just drop him off? Was he hiding something from me?
Note: my husband has cheated on me a couple of times before. And he would often time use work as an excuse to rendezvous with the other women. He even “lent†one woman $5k++ and guess what, that money didn’t return anymore.
All I wanted was for him to be honest with me and tell me the truth and let me in. I just want to have security and assurance that he’s not cheating on me anymore. Instead all he does was make me suspicious and keep me paranoid. I would beg him to see where I’m coming from but all he does was attack me and say I was being dramatic.
TL;DR: My husband (who had been unfaithful a couple of times before) told me he wanted to see his friends/colleagues but when I offered to join them, he got furious and said he’d rather not go. I have a feeling he might be cheating on me again. Am i just being paranoid?


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