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How common is it for men to *never* feel sexually desired? (Even men who have a normal history of da (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
How common is it for men to *never* feel sexually desired? (Even men who have a normal history of dating and relationships)
Just wondering if I'm an anomaly. I would say I have a pretty normal dating history - mid-twenties right now with 2 LTRs under my belt and several short term dating experiences. But even though I've received glowing reviews from all of these women, I have not once felt they were giving me that type of animalistic desire you see in movies. Straddling me passionately, kissing me like a starving tigress, jumping my bones as soon as I get home from work, etc.
It always feels like I have to put all the passion into the relationship and she just passively reciprocates by laying there. And occasionally when I ask for it she'll be "active", but again only when it's directly requested.
I've tried doing things like self-improving, maintaining stellar hygiene, eating ***** all the time, etc. But none of it seems to matter.
Is this a common experience among men, or is it something about me in particular? What is your experience with this stuff?
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Just wondering if I'm an anomaly. I would say I have a pretty normal dating history - mid-twenties right now with 2 LTRs under my belt and several short term dating experiences. But even though I've received glowing reviews from all of these women, I have not once felt they were giving me that type of animalistic desire you see in movies. Straddling me passionately, kissing me like a starving tigress, jumping my bones as soon as I get home from work, etc.
It always feels like I have to put all the passion into the relationship and she just passively reciprocates by laying there. And occasionally when I ask for it she'll be "active", but again only when it's directly requested.
I've tried doing things like self-improving, maintaining stellar hygiene, eating ***** all the time, etc. But none of it seems to matter.
Is this a common experience among men, or is it something about me in particular? What is your experience with this stuff?
Source.
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