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Would it be rude to univite my (f23) gf (f23) from family camping trip? (by Sparky)
Would it be rude to univite my (f23) gf (f23) from family camping trip?
My gf and I have been seeing other for 9 months, dating for almost 6 months. She is going to be moving away by the end of next month probably (depending on some stuff), and decided she doesn't want to pursue a long distance relationship with me but still be "close". I understand why she doesn't want to be in a LDR, it really hurts my feelings, but I accept it mostly.
However my dad is coming into town in a couple weeks, and we'll be going camping for a few days. He's been planning this trip since last year. I don't see my dad often, once a year, but he's very important to me. I don't typically like to bring a lot of people around him either. He is a loner, and also he's a bit insensitive so it's been hard to have him around my friends in the past. Also, this would be the first time Ive brought a gf around him. Also He's not against me being a lesbian totally, he's just weird about it. Basically, its a big relationship step for me to have someone meet my dad.
Ive been thinking on it, and I'm not sure if I should have my gf come now. I had already invited her and she seems excited to come along. I just don't see a point in having her meet my Dad and having her come now on the trip now since she doesn't want to continue a relationship with me later. Am I just in my feelings?
TL;DR
GF and I are temporarily together. I invited her to go camping with my family and meet my Dad but now I'm not sure if she should come. Would it be wrong to uninvite her? Am I just being dramatic?
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My gf and I have been seeing other for 9 months, dating for almost 6 months. She is going to be moving away by the end of next month probably (depending on some stuff), and decided she doesn't want to pursue a long distance relationship with me but still be "close". I understand why she doesn't want to be in a LDR, it really hurts my feelings, but I accept it mostly.
However my dad is coming into town in a couple weeks, and we'll be going camping for a few days. He's been planning this trip since last year. I don't see my dad often, once a year, but he's very important to me. I don't typically like to bring a lot of people around him either. He is a loner, and also he's a bit insensitive so it's been hard to have him around my friends in the past. Also, this would be the first time Ive brought a gf around him. Also He's not against me being a lesbian totally, he's just weird about it. Basically, its a big relationship step for me to have someone meet my dad.
Ive been thinking on it, and I'm not sure if I should have my gf come now. I had already invited her and she seems excited to come along. I just don't see a point in having her meet my Dad and having her come now on the trip now since she doesn't want to continue a relationship with me later. Am I just in my feelings?
TL;DR
GF and I are temporarily together. I invited her to go camping with my family and meet my Dad but now I'm not sure if she should come. Would it be wrong to uninvite her? Am I just being dramatic?
Source.
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