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My(16f) siblings(20s, 30s) realized I grew up and now are all down to the "macho" culture. I'm pisse (by Sparky)

 Sparky (0)  (29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
18-May-18 10:51 pm
My(16f) siblings(20s, 30s) realized I grew up and now are all down to the "macho" culture. I'm ****** off.

Hey guys, I'm not a native speaker so there might be some mistakes.
I'm the only girl on the family(except for some distant cousins and my grandma). I only have brothers, uncles, ect so I grew up in a very masculine place.
I organized a surprise birthday party to one of my older brothers and got in contact with a lot of his friends. Summarizing, the party was great and I was happy. One of his friends(30s) started messaging me, which I found it kinda weird but ok. He then started to ask for a date and telling me some crude things. I said I wasn't confortable and said we should stop talking. He sent me a **** picture.
I blocked him and decided to talk with my brother. I was kinda sad and a bit afraid to do this, as they've been friends since HS but went throught it.
He didn't believe me, which kinda hurt but I guess I can understand. Then he basically told me that even if his friend was interested in younger people it wouldn't be me. That made me feel super bad and embarassed so I just locked myself in my room and sent him screenshots of our conversation.
Apparently he confronted said friend, who admited. Came home and apologized for not believing me(not about that last thing though). I said ok and thought it was over.
Now he has spread to the rest of the family and they're goung crazy. Like telling me to change clothes, not wear make up, blow my phone asking where I am, who are my friends. I always tell them to **** off and try to treat them as before but they keep being sexist *******s.
I guess I do feel hurt that they thought I was so ugly that they didn't have to worry about me being given attention and that now they realized someone might be attracted to me they wanna control my life. This is starting to affect my life, I have a lot of brothers and they are big and have intimidated a couple of male friends. So far no one has left but it's a matter of time.
I tried talking, screaming, giving the silent treatment but nothing seems to work. What should I do??
TL;DR: my brothers realized men can be attracted to me and now are on a sexist quest to "protect me". How can I tell the them to **** off?


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