Guy (22m) I (19f) have been seeing recently , refuses to clean himself properly because it’s “emasculatingâ€. He thinks this is completely normal. What are your thoughts?

Okay so I began seeing a guy about three months ago. He was very sweet and kind and we hit things off very quickly. I first noticed that when I went over to his place , it stunk very badly. It smelt like old dirty clothes that hadn’t been washed in weeks, I was very upfront in telling him that it was an unpleasant smell and he should probably take care of it. I seemed to only notice the smell when I was at his place so I assumed it was that he just did not do a great job at cleaning. One night we were kissing and I was very very in the mood. I was about to go down on him when I reached just about at his belly button I got a horrible whiff of something. I didn’t want to be rude and didn’t know how to address the situation. I continued kissing him for another 10 minutes and then just suggested that we cuddled. My thoughts were maybe that he hadn’t showered before I came over and because he goes to the gym regularly he was probably just very sweaty. Again , I completely over looked it. Another time we were about to hook up when I pulled his pants down it smelt like straight ass and sweat. I have him a ******* and said that I had a mouth sore and didn’t want anything to happen. At this point I began to get irritated and tried to figure out how I would address the situation. The last straw was when I suggested that we shower together (so I could make sure he was showering before we had sex, as up to this point I assumed the stench was coming from him not showering after the gym) We kisses and hugged and I hopped in the shower first. As he took off his clothes his back was to me and that’s when I saw what appeared to be dried poop residue?? I don’t even know what to call it. I figured he did not wipe correctly and I said “we aren’t gonna have sex until you make sure you’re spotless†and he said “ what do you mean?†I said “ make sure you clean your ass because it doesn’t look like you finished wiping earlier†he then said he did wipe but he’s not gonna get “all the way in there because that’s not right†I was very confused and he continued explaining “ no man is putting anything that deep in their crack unless their gay, it’s emasculating†I got out the shower and he acted like he had not clue as to why I was upset. His “argument†just sounded ridiculous. He kept assuring me that he doesn’t know any guy who is gonna put anything in that far in there and what not. I was just disgusted and I left. I have not talked to him in two days and I am thinking about just ghosting him. Is this kind of thing normal? Yes I know all guys are not like this but is this type of mindset unusual to see or are many guys like this to a degree?
Tldr: guy I have been seeing refuses to wipe his ass properly because it’s gay and emasculating apparently. Is this unusual to see from a guy ?


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He doesn't wipe or wash his ass and balls....you better not sleep with him.

@Sparky: That’s actually unusual behavior for a guy. I make sure that my butt clean after I go number 2 and I shower at least twice a day if needed. There could be a mental health issue that’s causing him to think that you have to be gay to reach all the way up there. As far as body odor and his house smelling bad that could be a number of reasons. If he can’t keep himself clean and keep his place clean you should find someone else.