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I (f16) was asked out by my crush (m16) but it turns out his friend was on his phone and asked me ou (by Sparky)

 Sparky (0)  (29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
17-Mar-18 2:40 am
I (f16) was asked out by my crush (m16) but it turns out his friend was on his phone and asked me out as a joke! To make things worse, I said yes!

TL;DR: asked out as a joke
Story time: I’ve liked one of my best guy friends for a while now. We told each other everything, and one day I started to like him as more than a friend. So, it was maybe 6:00 pm, and he Snapchats me saying he’s bored, and so we started playing random questions. (which is literally just asking each other random questions) I genuinely thought it was my crush sending all of these because it was his face in the Snapchat! But then, he starting chatting in the dm section of Snap, and asked me who I had a crush on. I said that I’ll tell him if he told me. This is where the story gets tragic y’all.
He told me! He said that he used to like me. So, me being the naive person I am, said “yeah same lol†and then the convo died down a bit and he had to go to basketball practice. I was talking to one of my friends about it and she, jokingly, (though I’m still pretty ****** at her) Snapchats my crush “OMG U FINALLY TOLD NINA (me) THAT U LIKED HER†and lemme tell you guys, he was confused af. Especially considering he’d asked out my friend about 2 hrs earlier. That’s right, he was dating someone.
So, it felt like my heart had been smashed with a sledgehammer and tossed in a fire. But then came the embarrassment. Actually, saying I am mortified is a better way to put this lmao. I’m moving this summer for my moms work and it’s currently mid March so I just have to get through the school year and even then I have no clue how!
Back to the story lol. It turned out my crushes friend was on his Snapchat account and sent all of those messages. So basically I told his friend that I liked him. When I found this out, I made the friend who sent him the Snapchats (I’ll call her... Abby) clear everything up with my crush and basically say that she was on my phone saying everything. My crush and I both agreed we should put this behind us, but idk how to live down this mortal embarrassment.
Finally, I ****ed up big time. I only told four people about this situation, and let’s call them: Allie, Alex, Abby, and Lindsay. So, same night all of this went down, I found out Allie thought I was a fake friend, AFTER I confided in her what happened, and now I’m scared she’s going to tell my friend that my crush asked out!!! Now Alex idrc that I told because she’s off playing golf in Florida for the next two weeks lmao. Abby, the friend who contacted my crush, hasn’t been the most trustworthy person lately but she was my best friend so I felt obligated to tell her, except I have a feeling she told a LOT of people. And then Lindsay, I know she wouldn’t tell a soul so I’m fine there.
To sum it up: I’m absolutely mortified, and scared that this will get back to 1) the entire grade and 2) especially my friend that my crush asked out because I don’t want to get in between them. I just don’t know how to live this down


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