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[Update] My [20/M] girlfriend [24/F] of 3 years is pregnant, she wants to keep the baby but I don't. (by Sparky)
[Update] My [20/M] girlfriend [24/F] of 3 years is pregnant, she wants to keep the baby but I don't. I'm freaking out, what am I supposed to do?
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I wanted to write a quick update. About a month ago I wrote a post asking for help. I was still in denial about being a father, but reading the replies snapped me back to reality. I talked to my girlfriend, she was worried that I'd leave her, because I mentioned once that I never wanted to have kids very early in our relationship. I've changed my mind since then, and I reassured her I was here to stay, that I was going to help her raise our child as a couple. We went to the doctor to make sure she was actually pregnant, and she was.
Since then I've gotten a decent paying job to help support our child, and have been living with my girlfriend for 4 weeks. I told my parents about the whole situation, and they offered to help us in anyway possible. Our community also has a few resources that are meant to help new parents, which I'll be sure to use because I've no clue on how to be one.
It's weird to think that in 7 months I'll be raising a kid, when sometimes I still feel like one. I have a lot of learning and maturing to do. I hope I can be an excellent dad. Thank you for the advice Dating.mobi.
tl;dr: I'm staying with my girlfriend and helping her raise our child. I'm so excited and nervous to be a dad!
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I wanted to write a quick update. About a month ago I wrote a post asking for help. I was still in denial about being a father, but reading the replies snapped me back to reality. I talked to my girlfriend, she was worried that I'd leave her, because I mentioned once that I never wanted to have kids very early in our relationship. I've changed my mind since then, and I reassured her I was here to stay, that I was going to help her raise our child as a couple. We went to the doctor to make sure she was actually pregnant, and she was.
Since then I've gotten a decent paying job to help support our child, and have been living with my girlfriend for 4 weeks. I told my parents about the whole situation, and they offered to help us in anyway possible. Our community also has a few resources that are meant to help new parents, which I'll be sure to use because I've no clue on how to be one.
It's weird to think that in 7 months I'll be raising a kid, when sometimes I still feel like one. I have a lot of learning and maturing to do. I hope I can be an excellent dad. Thank you for the advice Dating.mobi.
tl;dr: I'm staying with my girlfriend and helping her raise our child. I'm so excited and nervous to be a dad!
Source.
To any a**hole who fathers a child and dosnt want the mother to keep it, save the baby and kill yourself!
because I mentioned once that I never wanted to have kids very early i
Consequences happen with every action....some good, some bad.
One of the consequences that may come from having sex.....no matter if the guy is wearing 5 rubbers, the woman is on the pill, and gets dump trucked on the belly.....is pregnancy.
Running away...OR abortion....should never be options since the probable consequences are known.
Like a twig in the woods lol
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