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Mind goes blank (by rayminton49)

 rayminton49 
30-Jul-12 11:25 pm
Ok so there is a lady on here I like alot. I've been outta the dating scene for 2d years. This woman knows how I feel about her. My problem is a lot of the time when I start to message her my mind goes blank. I dont want her thinkin that Im not interested because I am. Im very interested in her. She is the sweetest woman I've ever known.

 

 

 
 
 Rainbowbutterfly 
30-Jul-12 11:48 pm
Perhaps it goes blank because you were tensed and very excited :) & it means you are not the type of a person who excels in " fabricated " love phrases which means the words that you type are from your heart ...


I'm like that when I was 17 years old

Try to relax more , it helps :)

 

 

 
 
 rayminton49 
30-Jul-12 11:51 pm
Thanks I'll try. She truly is somethin special.

 

 

 
 
 VampDoll 
30-Jul-12 11:56 pm
Yeah just chill and be yourself. There is so much you can discuss. You know the beginnings of something special when you just want to know everything about that person. Take some ideas from the topics and threads if you're stuck for ideas. What music, movies, food, books she likes. What are her hobbies, hopes and aspirations. Its nice when a guy is genuinely interested in you as a person and takes time to get to know you.

 

 

 
 
 rayminton49 
30-Jul-12 11:58 pm
I am. Its kinda funny though. I've never had this problem before.

 

 

 
 
 VampDoll 
31-Jul-12 12:02 am
That's really sweet. Just try not to worry or be nervous and completely enjoy it all. You seem like a decent guy, hope it all goes well for you :)

 

 

 
 
 brats52005 (52)    (54 / F-M / California)
31-Jul-12 12:03 am
Well its probably because you were out of the dating circle awhile. But just relax and be yourself. Vampdoll had alot of good ideas that are sure to help.

 

 

 
 
 VampDoll 
31-Jul-12 12:12 am
Thanks brats <3

 

 

 
 
 rayminton49 
31-Jul-12 12:37 am
Thanks ladies. You are all a big help.

 

 

 
 
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