So i thought i found him but of course i screwed it up like always :-((

Just think back...and figure out...what you did wrong...AND THEN...next time...try not to do it again...NEXT TIME...DO THE COMPLETE OPPOSITE.

I couldnt trust him bcuz i was in a abusive relationship my bf cheated alot

Alot of people have trust issues, because everyone has been hurt in one form or another. But there is two things you have to understand. The first is not everyone is the same, that being said people make mistakes, you, me, your ex, my ex... And mistakes can hurt people. How you let those mistakes change you determins who you are. The second thing you should understand is true love is totally worth it... And for true love you have to risk being hurt again, by laying out your weaknesses for them to accept or reject... Decision's yours.

@Jwiggi: wow that just not only hit the nail on head with the hammer but drove it down in one swing...just have too add that well some people fear rejection so much it can be a phobia almost. Idk if that's what its like with you or not leslie. Just saying if been hurt before or well even worse but in general that has big trust impact as well.

@TheBillCollector... That's mine... Rejection. Scares the crap out of me. Alot of people in my life have jus got up and left... I'm trying tho lol

@Jwiggi: well i suppose i kinda had that easy. I was a military brat and we never stayed put more than four years in one place. so i never really even tried too date felt pointless to me movin so much.

THANK U BOTH :-* cyber cheeks kis 4 u bth

@lonelyleslie: Life is like a story. When one story ends,t another starts. Forget about the past, look into the future and thinks of securing it.

Well said