When I, was in a relationship my partner told me that being with me makes her a better person, but she still could not get it together. And recently on this site someone told me. I am too go to be true after tolking for awhile but then she was gone. Over and over you read profiles saying I'm looking for a good guy that loves me etc... Is that just cheap talk? Say what you mean and back what you say. Walk the walk and not just talk the talk.