I know what you mean, am in the same boat myself but confidence is a plus but if your a lesser attractive guy to most females you have to have a lot more confidence than the average guy. It's sad in the society that we live in today when most women are so obsessed with looks and have high expectations/standards of a guy look wise. Just because a guy doesn't have a model looking face , perfect teeth, abs, and a nice body does that make him a bad person or someone you don't wish to know because he is lacking in the looks department. Girls/women have to stop expecting guys to have the looks (ie great body, abs, and prefect teeth and such) because every guy doesn't look like that. Every guy is different in their own unique way. It is what's in the inside that counts not looks. Yeah looks do help but are only a bonus not the main reason you should accept or reject someone. It's a person's character that matters most of all not their looks. If someone can't accept you for who you are then they aren't worth your time then. Hopefully you'll find what you're looking for man and good luck

@ZeroBlood89: looks matter to a point you have to have some attraction to the person or it may be rocky but you don't have to be patient and wait not all women are hung up on looks im more about the personality in a guy and a sense of humor. if we have things in common plus pretty boys and hot women just break your heart in the end.

@MikeN2014: well said

Just show yourself friendly and talk to as many women as you can one will message you back and well you never know

@ZaylieRaely: thank you

Here's the straight truth. The only way, here or in the world, that you're gonna find either Ms. Right or Ms. Right now is to be yourself AND have the swagger of a man who can do anything like a champ. Ask Sweets. When I first came here almost a year ago my first forum post was along the same lines as this guy. I realized that if I'm not being me then I might as well be telling women here to be what they think a man wants instead of being what decent men actually want, which is a real, honest woman. Then I figured out that if I keep wondering if I'm worth dating then she'll figure out I'm not. And it can't be all false bravado, you MUST believe that you are the best man walking the earth.

Honestly, the reason I haven't found anyone is the fact I'm not attracted to the only active female in my state and not willing to travel.

@BigPapaRedneck: to each their own

@BigPapaRedneck: I am so wiiiiise. Lol

lmfao