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 sweetnspice 
30-Jun-14 7:36 pm
Definitely just got sexually harassed at work. Not sure what to do about it, but I will post more later...

 

 

 
 
 mrb89 
30-Jun-14 7:40 pm
Oh my... I'll be waiting to hear the rest

 

 

 
 
 WalkSoftly 
30-Jun-14 7:44 pm

 

 

 
 
 Justshellagain 
30-Jun-14 7:53 pm
Go ninja on his azz

 

 

 
 
 impeccablesossy (33)   (34 / F-MF / Nigeria)
30-Jun-14 8:20 pm
We are waiting

 

 

 
 
 sweetnspice 
30-Jun-14 11:57 pm
First, I was putting on my apron in the backroom and he says, "One of your buttons came undone on your shirt." I said ok and buttoned it back, ad he said, " we don't need that kind of indecency around here." lol- whatever.

So I go over to the desk after my apron is on and he stands behind me and slowly unties it from the back and goes, "mmmph"...ok, now that's a little borderline...

So,I start looking for something on the top shelf and I move another item to the side and say, "Well, that's not what I'm came over here for..." and he says" Oh, you didn't over here for me to take off your clothes?"- yeah inappropriate.


I told him he better be glad there isn't sound surveillance in the back of the store. No one else was in the back room with us either. I'm not overreacting or filling out an incident report unless it becomes an ongoing thing, but that was straight up sexual harassment right?

 

 

 
 
 Rob65 
1-Jul-14 12:00 am
@sweetnspice: I'm a guy but I'd say report and sue...imo

 

 

 
 
 Wolf1966 
1-Jul-14 12:02 am
Yes it was sweets!! And before it goes I believe u need to tell this person that what he is doing n saying inapropite n ask him to stop n if he does not stop or just shrugs off what u say report him or knee him in the nads

 

 

 
 
 WalkSoftly 
1-Jul-14 12:03 am
First, I was putting on my apron in the backroom and he says, "One of your buttons came undone on your shirt." I said ok and buttoned it back, ad he said, " we don't need that kind of indecency around here." lol- whatever.

So I go over to the desk after my apron is on and he stands behind me and slowly unties it from the back and goes, "mmmph"...ok, now that's a little borderline...

So,I start looking for something on the top shelf and I move another item to the side and say, "Well, that's not what I'm came over here for..." and he says" Oh, you didn't over here for me to take off your clothes?"- yeah inappropriate.


I told him he better be glad there isn't sound surveillance in the back of the store. No one else was in the back room with us either. I'm not overreacting or filling out an incident report unless it becomes an ongoing thing, but that was straight up sexual harassment right?
Shld kneed him in the 'nads.....

 

 

 
 
 xlace38x 
1-Jul-14 12:07 am
He would have a black eye

 

 

 
 
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