Just wondering why women call men shallow, yet here i am a great guy. Missing my left hand at the wrist wondering why most ladies on here wont even acknowledge me...

I dont know....i think most of them are too critical to admit they are shallow themselves. Ill be the first to say im shallow at times, no need to lie. There are women out there who can look past the fact that you are missing a hand. Many, of course will find it shocking, but just keep your chin up. She'll come along soon enough :)

Giver,
It is like I said before, people need to learn to accept who you are and not what you can or cannot do...it is strange to me also that people have such a hard time looking past certain things...one would think that as we go into adulthood, the superficial bleeds out and we start looking for a more meaningful time with someone. I agree with Kronik, I hope that you find someone who has that sort of thing in mind.
Peace and Joy,
Bones :)

All people are shallow...we all want the perfect mate...we only settle for imperfections...when we are lonely and desperate.

@manwithoutfear: oh STFU!!!

What if it was from war? same? about to give this online thing up

@giver: Im late again :)
I dont know if you watch the movie of a lady surfer whose hand was bitten by a shark , also, an Australian guy who was born without limbs (both hands and feet).. If you see them, you'll be amaze and admire how they turn their physical challenge into blessings.

@giver: don't feel bad a few of us are not doing so hot on this site either. But I think its just fun talking too diffrent people just my thought good luck in your search

@andy3465: How did you even find this thread?

@LaDawn: just looking through why?