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Friends With Benefits... (by LaDawn)

 LaDawn (11)   (50 / F-M / Oklahoma)
28-May-14 5:29 pm
What does such a relationship mean to you? Ever had one? Want one? What are ground rules?

 

 

 
 
 james85 
28-May-14 5:38 pm
I would not want a relationship like that, i would have feelings for her and i guess thats one of the main rules of fwb that you cant.

 

 

 
 
 sweetnspice 
28-May-14 5:51 pm
This is crazy...I just had a friend offer this to me a few nights ago. I said no because I'm his supervisor and he's bisexual.


Anyway, I'd have no problem with it if there were a few contingencies. Talk about what you're getting into BEFORE the sex. We shouldn't be having sex with a bunch of other people (I'd probably stick to just them) and if at any point one or both wants more, there has to be an open discussion.

I've never had a fwb, but it seems like a win-win...until someone gets hurt. But, maybe that's avoidable if the rules are followed.

 

 

 
 
 sweetnspice 
28-May-14 5:56 pm
I would not want a relationship like that, i would have feelings for her and i guess thats one of the main rules of fwb that you cant.
Mmm, I don't know..is it not feasible to have feelings for a friend and still remain friends? I think sex would complicate it a little more, but if you both want it...maybe it wouldn't be that big of a deal?

 

 

 
 
 james85 
28-May-14 6:02 pm
@sweetnspice: i get your point sweeter, but with me what if i did want a proper relationship from it? If thats even possible... Idk. after all that is what i want in my life a proper relationship

 

 

 
 
 Bubbaearls 
28-May-14 6:04 pm
@sweetnspice: so what would it take to girl

 

 

 
 
 xlace38x 
28-May-14 6:06 pm
I don't see anything wrong with it if both of you are on the same page about everything, I think it would work out if the two people are not looking for a relationship at the moment and neither one will make it uncomfortable or strange around other people.....keep it between the two of you and it works a lot better

 

 

 
 
 sweetnspice 
28-May-14 6:13 pm
@sweetnspice: so what would it take to girl

Well first, I'd have to want to be your friend...

 

 

 
 
 WalkSoftly 
28-May-14 6:14 pm
Hey, if I can get a friendship AND medical and dental, win win!








































Oh cmon....you laughed!!

 

 

 
 
 sweetnspice 
28-May-14 6:15 pm
@sweetnspice: i get your point sweeter, but with me what if i did want a proper relationship from it? If thats even possible... Idk. after all that is what i want in my life a proper relationship
Cross your fingers? Lol

 

 

 
 
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