What do you think is good etiquette when it comes to sites like this, if you no longer wish to speak to someone? When I stop talking to someone, I always try to let them know why. But I notice some people just don`t message back. SO my question is, which way is more polite, or do you choose a completely different option?

I would rather someone say to me why they dont want to talk anymore. or even a "sorry not interested" but most of the time, they just stop chatting and i realise after a while, im used to that now.

For me i dont like to hurt ppl feelings so if we have been chatting i would probably jus not reply as often or have much to say jus to kinda throw a hint cuz i always want to keep friends. If we never spoke i may jus not reply at all. I dnt even read all my msg, not tring to be mean to anyone but if i know u i'll read it....if i dont i may read it but if u send the same thing 8 days in a row, i eventually stop reading them.

Ah James. I'd talk to you. its always important to be honest. you can't be accused of leading anyone on then. you know if you're not hitting it off with someone so its always good to be polite and explain why :)

@VampDoll: aw you mean that? thank you!

Yeah :) of course. you seem a nice guy.

@vampdoll James is a really nice guy. Anyone that wouldnt talk to him is outta their mind. I guess in my statement above i also should have added, i judge on a one on one basis. Cuz no 2 men or relationship are the same so each needs to be handled differently.

If I receive messages from members whom I haven't seen in the forums , I replied them with a sorry note , telling them that I am just enjoying my spare hours in the forums but if I'd seen him in the forums , posting & commenting then I replied to them. For me,I always tell them the reasons except to those who sent rude / only hi, hey / or giving away their info I totally ignore them.

@Briteeyes1211: wow! you really mean that? thank you! you've made me embarrassed now lol

@rainbow yep thats kinda what i do too....i try to get a few to come join me on the forums lol. If i get a msg from someone out here posting i always reply to them. @James No need to be embarassed honey. Everyone needs a lil pat on the back every now and then and i can easily give u compliants cuz ive seen nothing but kindness and respect be shown by u. So i'll tell all the Dating.mobi ladies where they can find a good fella at. :)