Why the people here don't like to reply messages from those that are in Africa? I was in the US from 1995 to 2010, the purpose why i am in the Gambia, i decided to come and spent time in my home land, to get to know my country, but will be soon returning back, that's why i joined this site to find the woman of my dreams, to spend the rest of my life when i go back to the US. Please respond to my messages, refering to those that are in the United States! . .

Yeah, that is true i am micheal from nigeria, i have contacted many US ladies here but i dont get reply from them i am tired of this site.

Well most of us dont look outside the states. Weather you say you are coming home to u.s.a. We dont know you. Most scams come out of africa. People choose to be safe is another. Third is some of us have kids and cant move from this state. Like me.

It hurts...I am real n comfortable....but my ladies don't want to chat me cos am black.?..n I believe they think blacks here are scanners...it hurts.. I am not just need the love.....

My Holland ladies were r u?

@brats52005: ok we get it...but we all need love...it hard....I and the real guys hope with our pure heart will find someone to smile with...thankx for your respond.

Well, im from texas, usa. im talking to a lady that lives in hong kong. long way away from me, but majorly worth it when i go. ^.^

It doesnt go for all of us that is my reason why i dont look outside california let alone another country not everyone elses. Everyone has an opinion all their own of why they do or dont talk to people outside the country. I wish you would quit putting its because your black because im gonna a few might think that but not everybody. May i suggest you put up a subjest in the forums thats not why this or that. Try a subject thats related to all thats in the world because we have everyone from all walks of life and countrys. Andres has given us so many great topics to make threads about. From love to poetry too all kinds of stuff. Again its j.m.o.

@brats52005: ok, i understood you very well, i think you r right somehow, but since you can't move frm there,still me believes that nothing impossible on the earth, so am beging you plz do your best find me someone who can come to Tanzania is a pieace country in Africa and have good people too just do that for me. reply me thru this site. hope so. thanx and take care.

It not my job to find you you special person. Talk on other threads and let the people get to know you and your thought. Most of us that have been here awhile or lurkered awhile know that some are finding a special person by just posting opinions out here in the forums. It gives people and idea to weather they want to talk to you are not. Most likely people are shy. You will find the one not shy in the forums and will speak their opinions.Good luck and give it a try. It wont hurt to try it. Again good luck.