If an older lady is seen with a younger guy it normally has a positive connotation that she's a "cougar" or "milf." And he just wants "aged fine wine."

But, if an older guy is seen with a younger lady, she's usually seen as a "gold digger" or as having a "daddy complex." And he's either in a "mid-life crisis" or a "perv."

Why is that? Anyone ever dated someone considerably older or younger(15 years+)? Did you feel pressure or scrutiny from family or society?

@sweeterthejuic3: I Have Faced More Scrutiny Over Inter-Racial Dating, But Hey Welcome To Texas. Lol

@B3dR00m3y3z: same here lol got borderline disowned by my parents and family over dating out side my race.

@B3dR00m3y3z: Well, yeah especially if you're in a small town.

My family already knows not to expect me to bring home any particular race...but I brought up age differences this past Christmas, and heard the most ridiculous reasons as to why I shouldn't date someone older.

I had a lover who was a good 15 + years older than me....hands down, gave the best oral I've ever had lol. No pressure, because it was below the radar hahaha. She had a son who most likely wouldn't have approved.

Its very surprising what you learn isn't it? Lol

Sexually, I could totally see the benefit. Someone most likely being more experienced and the other person learning some new tricks!

@sweeterthejuic3: most definitely! Now that I'm on the "other side of the fence" lol, the benefit to me of having a younger lover would be the ego boost as well as the rejuvenation of an otherwise declining sex life. For my lover, the obvious payoff would be the almost 40 years of honing and perfecting my skills & techniques. Not to mention the unequaled gratitude for the young ladys charms which were taken for granted in my youth.

@1honestman: That's an honest assessment! :)