Its that i have a habit in doing it alot

I think its bad why would u do that there has 2 b a reason for hiding the past family and friends from her....???? I dont understand at all!!!

Some of my past its not very good i dont even talk to my mother she lives like 300miles away from me i live on my own ya see and i wouldnt want her to meet the friends i got i feel like i would make thinks aa bit bad between the girl i was seeing

How can you ever expect a long term relationship to work, if you don't let her into your life? She can't truly accept you, if she doesn't know it all. And if she loves you, she will be able to handle it. Plus, if she found out later that you hid things from her, she would be hurt, angry, and she wouldn't trust you.

I sorta think im doing it to protect her

Ur not protecting her. ur not being honest ur not allowing her to fully know u

Im scared to tell her about my past and family there linked in a bad way i have changes mmy life since then i joint the british army

Well, no one is perfect. even if your past and stuff is bad, youve still gotta let her in. my life aint too perty either, but its not about your past. she knows who you are today, so tellin her and lettin her know your life fully, wont hurt her. if you keep her from it, youre not protecting her, youre simply lieing.

Yes its bad. Not one of us is perfect. It is deceiving and not honest. If she does care about you she will except you as you. It is best to tell her. Because they always find out the longer your with someone. It would hurt her more that you werent honest with her. You may not like your past but you learned from it. As for family they are always blood kin. Weather you talk to them or not. So its best to be honest. Our past experiences good or bad make us who we are today and the tommarows to come.

Your so right