Dr john bates reckons women/men who aren't employed don't get dates as people like money spent on them. Interested to know other opinions

Id Accept the invite .. However i struggle getting things paid for me.. So id go halfs with him..

It depends on why he is unemployed

I'd accept because even if they are unemployed doesn't mean that they are a bad person.

I reckon before the person asks someone out for dinner ( especially first time ) he has money intended for the date but to be sure , I'd bluntly asks him if he has money ;) , then decide based from his answer..

If I like/love the person and he is struggling financially ( at the moment) , I am ok sharing a big bowl of instant noodles with him under the bridge :)

I'd accept if it was a picnic, and we were fishing.

I'd accept...its the person I'm interested in, not his wallet

(but I may or may not be telling the truth lmao)

@Briteeyez: i would also accept. And i believe you are telling the truth.

Most likely i would say no in most situations. I feel if somebody is unemployed they should be worried about getting thier life together before trying to bring somebody else into it.. And with no income they shouldnt be wasting money

Well its no secret that i am unemployed have been since i left school, i'd be willing to go half and half with a girl, by the time we date she would know my situation :)