Now this doesn't pertain to me at the moment, but I have had it happen in the past and I think a friend is going thru this right now. Have u ever gotten bored in a relationship? Tired of the same ole thing day after day. Especially long distance....talk on phone at same time each day...I miss you...how was your day...I can't wait to see u too....which is all nice, BUT at some point does it become boring....u just feel like u need more? Is that selfish?

@Briteeyes: I think its very possible to get bored in a situation like that but I also think there are was to keep things interesting.

Yes and no

@Briteeyes: sounds like my life dear

Yes i agree its all nice in the beginning then as time goes by things seem 2 get stale then u end up in a predicament where u don't wanna hurt no ones feelings but if there is still a spark live 4 the moment & try 2 make the best of it

Hmm

@Briteeyes: what about you? Does it get boring or do you have.ways of keeping things interesting?

@tat2d1976: I've had things turn boring before, I don't think its any one persons fault. Communication and finding new things is a necessity in most relationships and is up to both people to accomplish it. For me, I love doing new things, I will talk about any thing, (if I feel like the other is interested in what I'm saying lol.) And vise versa, I should be interested in what he says or does so it won't get boring to me. But if anyone wants to go sky diving to keep things interesting, give me a holler. :-)

skydiving would definitely keep it interesting !

If two people are in love and genuinely want to be together I believe they can make it work, if there bored then its up to them to try and make things more interesting it won't happen on its own.