Just for clarification and to allow me to get a handle on how this site works does checking a box on the contact restrictions page turn that restriction on or off? We'll get it sorted he says hopefully?

@wa4wga: If the box has a check mark then that restriction is not set...if the box is not checked then those people can not message you. For example....I have intimate encounter NOT checked...so that means I do not want anyone looking for intimate encounter to contact me. After checking the boxes of who u DO want contacting you be sure and hit submit at the bottom of the page

Thank you ma'am. I thought that operation was reversed. Thanks for the clarification. @Briteeyes: