People come on to sites like this expecting to find instant love,doesn't work that way,someone needs to know something about you and then trust you and then there maybe a spark there and that doesn't happen over night,it takes time and when someone says no,then respect their wishes and leave them alone,nothin worse than the smack of desperation,also DON'T insult them because you've been rejected either jmo,treat people how you would like to be treated

It requires patience... If someone gets in a relationship they gotta work their way up the ladder, I know its not the best of metaphors, but someone must start out as just friends and see where it goes. But that is my opinion, I am always respectful of others and their opinions.

Heard a lot about ppl buggin someone when they've said no and expect to bypass the friends things and want love NOW,hard enough when someone live near you,even harder on a datin sight,puttin faith in someone you've never met

That is just desperation

Can you say "green card" ? It is my opinion that they are just lookin 4 an easy way to get out of their country.

Yeah its just an act of desperation, someone should get to know the person better through being friends before they should even consider dating. Friendship is a long process and it too requires patience.

If your really lookin for love why not join a sight in the country you live in,I'm here txt/talk but when I'm ready I'll look for a brit site to find someone,can barely afford bus fare let alone airfare lol

@chunkymonkey67: But I'm not a brit :( now I'm heart broken lol jk jk