I just wanna say i know a few single mums both here and outside the site, and they are f'ing awesome (i am biased cause im a mums boy lol)

I wasn't raised by anybody. I grew up in a house full of drugs, where my mom would leave me and my brother home alone while we was still in diapers. Where I broke my arm and waited a week to go to the hospital when I was 7 and than still had to cook, clean, wash clothes everyday while my mom and step dad laid in bed getting high drunk and fighting and throwing ****..... and I have never did a drug in my life. When you are a adult you can not blame your actions on your upbringing. Right and wrong is common sense and its your choice if you want to be a man or a woman or a lowlife

And why the **** does it matter if a child was planned or not? What matters is stepping up and doing all you can for that child

This guy has been better two years with only three karma and to hasn't bothered to verify a pic.

@CarefulBitchesImPregnant: my upbringing was also bad and like you I never would do anything like that to my child your right there x it all depends on the parents/parent

@CarefulBitchesImPregnant: strong grl :)

@CarefulBitchesImPregnant: i am with u on that one pregant

at your age not being a man is you OWN fault...quit trying to blame it on mommy or daddy!

I think people are not getting the point that I am trying to make I was making an observation that it seems like most children are not plan and most people that have kids and are prepared for kids and go to terrible hardships because of that I am just wondering why. Why I never actually verfied my pic is because I my post a thread like once a month so why does it really matter honestly and what does that has to do with the topic of kids stop trolling. I am not blaming my probelms on parent I am talking about children everywhere raised by single parents everybody has had tough lies hell my dad left me to die literally to save himself among other things.

@polarbear71484: I totally get your point-actually was wondering Am I the only one to reply, who agrees w your ideals? Seriously-If I could go back and wait until I had my education and career together- then have the same kids God blessed me with I DEFINITELY WOULD! As you mature and become a responsible adult-fall in love w a woman w the same ideals-you will not look at bein a father as bein scary or stressful-altho I must admit, those feelings come w bein a parent-no matter how financially stable or grown you may be:) I admire you for seein the big picture at such a young age-my kids are my life but truly they have not had the best of lives because I was not financially stable or mature as a parent should be when I had em...They will tell you that they forgive me for the times I cried and yelled at them because I had such a big load raisin four of em alone-All from same daddy-married at 20, divorced at 31 w four babies to raise alone-he never paid his court ordered support:( Regardless-kids are a God sent blessing-but they truly deserve your best-and if you are tryin to make sure you are ready and able before bringin babies into this world then I salute you:-) Just remember, love is love-and a child knows nothing else...Mine tell me they wouldnt have wanted any other mama but wish things would have been better,easier, for us all:) Oh-& my son who will be 21 soon, is a good, responsible, hard working respectable young man-ALL DUE TO HOW I RAISED HIM:) Single mama-but God fearing and hardworking...guess you got that part wrong kiddo:) Mama or daddy can raise good kids alone but I agree they need a good male and female example-my brothers were my kids male influences-and they did a great job:)