For your boyfriend or girlfriend who didn't want to accept your love for him or her but to accept it few weeks to vacation. What does it mean if two weeks in the relationship, he or she forcely makes love to you & after that encounter changes from whom you fell for to a different person all together without love, affection etc. What does it mean to you & what will be your actions?, leave or stay after telling him or her the change they've cultivated & still remains same...

@Crady: Here, we call that "A FLING ", a temporary sexual relationship. It is usually understood that it is temporary & people move on. If it is only a day, it is "a one night stand"

@Zilya777: In a relationship?

@Crady: Those encounters are not "REAL RELATIONSHIPS" . Relationships, are longer, understood, mutual, & have an agreement, like a contract.

@Crady: I think I may have misunderstood you. I just re-read your post. You said "forcely makes love to you" & "after the encounter... Wants nothing to do ....." This sounds like a sex crime. And why would they want to be bothered, afterwards ? That is NOT A RELATIONSHIP.... No matter if they knew eachother before, or were in a relationship.

@Zilya777: Thanks it's about me. She asked me to pay her a visit in the airforce baracks where she stay. Her sister had travelled for a week. She knew my weakness but used my weakness to seduce & had sex with me. A week after she changed from whom I fell for to a stranger. Changed her #, no affection, care, attention etc. I tried talking her out but rather blamed me for everything. I changed & became more than any girl like her wanted; sacrifising critical health condition for her but still same. It's now 9weeks now no. Am very, very ill now. What do I do now.

@Zilya777: What do I do now since I've forgotten about her 80% & never told her a word.

@Crady: It is 5am, where I live. You are getting me confussed w/this. I wish you would have inboxed me & elaborated. I do not believe a woman forced you.... What ever happened. You two should have nothing to do w/eachother. Unless... Criminal charges are filed. And you see eachother in court. There is NOTHING for you two....to say to eachother. No contact .

I would move on and get over it with someone else that would treat me better and respect me better

@Crady: THANK YOU FOR INBOXING ME. We sure had a communication problem. Im glad I understand you now, & you are feeling a bit better. Differences in language & culture made it confussing. Take care, Bless you :)