@miking: If you made your introdution thread. Then READ PROFILES ETC...Send winks, inbox people. Just be yourself. Join in forum conversation, if you want. This is all you can do... Most women want men, from their own country...like I said. And USA is a really big country w/many races, religions, lifestyles etc... And women choose, who they want to message, see, marry. I have no other advice. Sorry. And we are on ANOTHER WOMAN, NEW COMMER THREAD. This is RUDE , it is called HIGH JACKING A THEAD.... It is HERS , not for us to chat. Take care, I have nothing further. Good Luck.