Ever notice that the people you do for the most are the ones that end up screwing you over/: I just don't understand why this is

@justin01: Sad. But offten that is true. The "TAKERS".... I have neighbors like that. I recently asked, 4 houses/families for help & nothing... Well a few, just showed up asking for help. And they got what they gave. Nothing... :) We learn & move on. If not, the TAKERS keep taking, & we keep giving. Move on to more loving, giving people & consider yourself lucky your FREE of the ones, that just are not worth, even speaking to.. :)

@Zilya777: unfortunately for me the people I'm helping is my mother and father, I can't exactly just move on from.helping them

Some ppl r just greedy! And u have to step bk away from those no matter how hard it is to say no. Bc as long as u keep giving them what they want, they will always try to fall bk on u for help. And if u r tired of being taken advantage of, then u gotta learn how to say NO! This advice is comin from personal experience.

well said :)

Well its my mother and father that's doing it, I help them.because they're both just having a hard time but it's the way I get treated by them that's so messed up after all I do

If you are living at home. Then ofcouse, pay bored, help out, do your part. If you are on your own... or when you are. Then your are independent. And your money, time etc.. Is yours, to give or not, when you choose. :)